When and How to Ask for Her Number

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One of the trickiest parts of approaching is knowing when to ask for her number. Timing is key. Don’t rush it—build a little rapport first, even if it’s just a few minutes of genuine conversation. Look for signs of interest: is she smiling, asking questions, or maintaining eye contact? If yes, you’re in a good position. Keep the request casual and confident: “I’d like to continue this conversation—can I get your number?”

Avoid being pushy; if she hesitates, respect her decision and don’t press further. Offering your number first is also a smart move—it puts the choice in her hands. Remember, the goal isn’t just to collect numbers, but to create real opportunities for connection. Asking at the right moment, with politeness and ease, increases your chances of turning a brief interaction into something lasting.